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Are You Globally Disciplining Your Employees

By Heather Joyner posted 01-12-2017 07:11

  

Global discipline is an easy way for a manager or supervisor to avoid having a difficult conversation. Often times this occurs during a staff meeting. The manager calls a meeting and gives a lecture in the hopes that the employee needing redirection realizes that the message is intended for him/her. The reality is majority of the time the employee misses the boat, thinking the message applies to someone else and the cycle of misbehavior and poor performance continues.

You may be thinking, “How does she know this?” Well, as a telecommunicator who was promoted to communications manager with no succession plan, no leadership development, or guidance I was guilty of making this mistake and getting no results.

One of the biggest challenges most new managers or leaders will face is how to initiate a difficult conversation.  I can remember early on in my management career the emotions that came up for me. The nervousness, the nausea, and the monkey-mind of ping pong in my head of what I would say versus what I thought the employee would say, which caused me to avoid the conversation all together. The only way I could see addressing poor performers was to call a staff meeting and express globally the issue in the hopes that the one needing the redirection got the message.

If you are using staff meetings to globally discipline an employee, stop judging yourself and take note of these tips to help you gain confidence in calling an employee meeting and getting results.

Know your intention

What is your end result? What are you wanting to accomplish? What observable behavior or action are you wanting to change or improve?

Set the expectations

When you have your meeting, set the expectations upfront of the vision you want to create. Share the observable behavior, not your opinion. (Speak from facts not feelings).

State the island (goal)

The employee needs to know what they are aiming for and what resources or aid you will provide to help them succeed. Ask for what you want versus what you don’t.

State the consequence

If the employee is not able to meet the goal in a reasonable amount of time, state what the consequence(s) will be. State again the support that you are able to provide and have them state what they may need to move forward.

Schedule a check-in or follow-up meeting

Employees need to be held accountable and have closure. They need to know if they are measuring up to your expectations.

Leadership skills in public safety is often not thought of as a necessity or a priority, however it truly should be seen as a valuable part of any training budget. Practice also makes perfect. The more you engage in one-on-one meetings using these steps the more you will lead from direction than fear.

This article originally appeared on my blog at www.stop911drama.com.

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01-14-2017 07:09

Hi, Kerry
Thanks for posting and sharing.
You are never wrong in your emotions, emotions are telling you something.

Many public safety leaders have confessed to me in private coaching sessions that they often feel nauseous when they are afraid an employee might cry or, if it’s a high performer, that the employee might quit. Others have told me that they feel like they don’t have the confidence or skills and are afraid to ask for mentoring because they don’t want to appear as incompetent. As a result, conversations that need to take place are usually put on the back burner, waiting for an explosion. In fact, time and time again I have observed that the conversation avoided today becomes the lawsuit a decade later.)

There may be many other possibilities for this as well. For me, one reason I may still feel nauseous before a one-on-one meeting is when I allow my emotions to override what I know to be true. Basically, I get distracted from my intended outcome and focus on "feelings" versus "facts." I call this a distraction.

My advice, the next time you feel this way is to stop and analyze your emotions. Ask yourself, why am I feeling this way? Am I not clear of my end result? Am I more attached to what the employee will do, or how they will respond? Have I done my duel diligence in obtaining the facts? Or, am I going to catch the employee off-guard? 

On a side note, termination meetings should NEVER be a surprise to the employee, and discipline should never come in the form of a performance evaluation.

I would be interested in hearing more of your thoughts, insights, or experience should this happen again.

Thanks! 
 

01-13-2017 19:04

Thank you, Heather. It seems simple now as we look back but you are exactly right.

Now how do we stop the nausea everytime we have to deal with bad behavior?

Thanks for the insight!

Kerry O'Connell, Director
Gallatin County 911
Bozeman, MT